Male for sure, I'm amazed it is so well developed at such an early stage.....looks about 3-4 weeks old? As long as the pods didn't open, you didn't see any yellow dust_pollen, on the leaves below your other ladies should be fine. The grow I just finished had 2 hermits but I kept a very close eye on them and snipped em soon as they appeared and all came out well in the end. Out of 1.5 lbs only one seed. Got lucky. Keep us posted!