bluecanoe
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The magic words "he's 23". At that age they are trying to figure their world out. I'm sorry he left you and then disappeared. My son was 30 when he died, and I let him have his 'alone time' with his friends. He didn't drive so I would take him to whatever bar his friends were playing music at and drop him off. Sometimes I'd go just to hear the music. Kids nowadays think we don't care, or understand, when we've been through everything they have and then some. Don't give up, and schedule a fishing trip like OJH suggested! Hours alone on a boat or just on the bank will make a person talk!!