SOIL Male or female

[DoggoneCowboy]

Male or female

[ChadWestport]

Can't really tell from that pic. The growth coming out should be the new side branch.

[crucialbunny]

Another day or two will tell the tale. If it's a male it won't start putting out pollen right away so no worries yet. Also a female needs to be in flower for it to be fertilized.

[dphipps1020]

Take a better picture in normal lighting if you can, you'll get a more accurate answer.