So sorry to hear about that whole situation, that's shitty!
As bad as it sucks to stop growing for a while, the risks just are not worth it, continue getting rid of everything. It sucks, but I think you just got to do it. Clean up the place of things that might cause trouble if found.
Congradulations on your new baby! Make it a good future for him, as free from legal bullshit as possible. And think about moving to a free state after all this crap blows over!