I've had good luck twice (once years ago, and once now during all the covid interruptions) with seedsman. For ~$7 you can get reshipment insurance, so if the package doesn't make it, they'll reship. They ship from their warehouse in the UK (usually spain but during the lockdown they opened up one in the UK) to distro in the US so it goes through customs without your name ever being attached, and then from there they ship it to you. They have an option to remove packaging at their discretion; last time I ordered (8ish years ago) they came in a sexy male soccer team birthday card that cracked me up, this time everything came in the breeders packaging.
I got a ton of freebies for my order (of like $130), plus a discount and more freebies for paying by bitcoin, but I'm pretty sure they accept credit cards in the US which no other big seedbanks do.