Well, if there's no damage to buds( or leaves) maybe you do have some type of benificial that's been there all along, like Daas said in the other thread. Does still sound like a mite though, but there are multiple kinds, and some harm, and some are predatory. Would make sense since mites are related to crabs and spiders, all have eight legs. Still would be leery to have em around till I knew who they were, though.
I would be more concerned with the bud rot at this point, the breeze will help with that, to. And lower your humidity if you are growing some place you can do that.
The articles Nebula has posted, has recipes for bud wash, also Jorge Cervantes shows how to do it with hydrogen peroxide and water on his you tube channel. I know ol Jorge uses his for powdery mildew, but nothing gets rid of bud rot, far as I know.
The bugs won't hurt you to smoke. You may want to harvest as soon as you reach the harvest window, though, cause of the bud rot, and keep a real close eye on them as they dry and cure.