hi there, thanks for responding, first i forgot i posted the question and then i just well forgot!
i am in a room. one window sealed up with vents. and a door. and a couple plug ins that have a red/yellowish light.
I was panicking. i thought i had a hermie, AGAIN!- but i think what was happening was the plants were or are very robust and the pre flowe/pistil pods looked TOO close to a male but
in the end, i took out only one plant and i regret it because i think it was fine.
I have been struggling with the grow room since I moved into it. three shite grows because of light leaks that occurred after I secured the room. anyway I am flying it now so thanks!
and a Happy Grow Year!