One thing I do agree on is everyone grows different, that's for sure.
I like to keep my ph run-off where it's supposed to be, either coco or soil, where your plant can uptake the nutrients, I don't know how long your run off has been that high , but I bet your buds would be much larger right now if your run-off had been right the whole grow.
Like I said, everyone grows different.
Good Luck Johnny6870