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Apologies to the community

Tersky

Tersky

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Let me first start off by apologizing to the community and SiriusFourside for my behavior on a now deleted post made by someone else. I had a part in the chaos and probably should have just blocked the dude instead of fighting with him. That said i dont feel bad for confronting guys like the one who is no longer here. I could have handled it differently and dont want new growers to be afraid to post questions. I can only speak for myself but considering everything that is going on in the world my patience is not where i want it to be. Sometimes i get frustrated with some new growers that seem to only want to learn though asking us stuff rather than putting the time into doing research like most of us had to in the beginning. Like i said i can only speak for myself, but if i were to snap at someone i want them to know it is never fully about them. It is usually just a build up of bs that i have been dealing with that leaks out in inappropriate ways. I advise the best course of action if you do get snapped at is to maybe PM the person and set a boundary but in a loving way. Doing so would make me feel like shit for snapping and i would admit my fault and apologize. I am not trying to make excuses for my behavior just trying to explain what i am thinking. Once again i am only speaking for myself but please understand that we are people too, and i genuinely want to help. I will not stand by however and let someone shit all over this forum and if that means repercussions, i'm fine with that.

Once again i apologize for being part of the fighting at times and will take a little break to deal with shit and see if ya'll want me back. Good luck and happy growing. :)
 
OK. Been a few minutes so... welcome back!

You're not alone by any means. I read every day and post rarely because I'm so disappointed in people in general but all the noobs (we all were) that just don't seem to read the main site before asking for a hand held for the next 4 months. I'm sure a lot of this is from all of the "covid gardeners" we're seeing this year. Never grown anything and can't understand why it is so difficult to just drop a seed and end up with 4 tons of weed in 30 days. And it damned well better be good weed. Or we didn't give the proper advice! My recent favorite was a noob posted and then bitched a few hours later because no one helped yet. Everyone here is a volunteer offering what they have learned over time. And donating THEIR time to help because it is just the right thing to do.

Hang in there. It will get better (I sure as hell hope so!).
 
Man you got nothing to apologize for we all get a case of the grumpies every so often and turn into an ass but in my opinion the interaction you’re talking about was 99.9% on the other guy. I am probably guilty of asking when I should be researching and I’ve been a part of other groups and answering the same question for the 100th time sometimes it’s almost impossible not to just say go F***ing look it up. Anyway.....personally I don’t think you have much to apologize for and I for one thank you for the time you’ve spent answering my questions.
 
WTF.....you mean I’m NOT gonna have 4 tons next month! Well I guess you did screw my grow up! 😗
 
Lol i will still log in from time to time and thought it would be rude if i made a post and just rage quit. I wont be posting on other posts for the mean time is what i meant to say. I have to listen to the feedback if i make a post, good or bad, or im just being hypocritical and closed minded. I am thankful for all the support i do have on this site despite my cantankerous attitude at times. That said i shouldnt dish it out if im not going to take it. A closed mind cant learn. I'm sure that is a paraphrased quote but true nonetheless.
 
I consider myself still as a new member to the forum, I joined in may.
so I really hope it’s not me you are referring too.
because ! I know I have already snapped at some people in here, and for that, I’m out for a couple of days from the forum. Not an apology but it’s just some thoughts in my mind.
I share the feeling about the “new” growers. I’m a new member but not a new grower. And sometimes I even snapped at some “new growers” just because it was a totally normal understanding you should have, before even starting the cannabis grow. And this sometimes piss me off. I understand the need the new growers have for knowing if they are doing it right. But! BUT sometimes is just question on question on questions. And all the answers I give, have nebula or Sirius already made an article about, with much easier answers than mine.
I love to help !! Really this is why a joined the site. Or else I just could keep on reading the main site and don’t bother sitting on here.

You are doing really good work ! And you are one of the 4 members in here I, seriously look up to. Beside Rwise and JohnEmad. (The last member is a surprise)

Happy growing Capt
 
No apology required Tersky. I attempted to head that guy off at the pass when he was attacking Budgal to begin with, by explaining why people may be a little short with him. He didn’t want to see anyone else’s side, so I feel would have ended the same either way, regardless of what was said. I don’t post much, and have only asked a couple of questions, however when I do, someone graciously offers me their unpaid opinion, which I appreciate immensely.
Thank you to all of you for offering your knowledge to others. It’s an great thing👍
 
I appreciate that. I feel as if i dont admit my mistakes i can never learn from them. Also it would be hypocritical to be angry at someone for acting like an ass while i act like an ass myself. I see the anger in social media today (especially in the states) and want to stay away from it so causing it on another site is what i regret and do not want for this site. All i can do is apologize and try to make amends even if i feel justified for my anger as anger begets anger and hate begets hate.
 
Nothing about this had to do with you my man. It was purely an introspective post. I have noticed some "old timers" get less and less patient but i totally understand as it seems as the world is getting more hostile. I do not wish that for this site and fear that my attitude lately has been contributing to it.
 
Honestly, I think you are overthinking mate.
It’s is a good thing ! The thing I love about this forum is the love and kindness in here. You don’t have on other sites for example.
Não you’re attitude has been fine man. I never noticed any form of “harshness” from you.
I’m sorry for you with the experience with that “Grower” I wish I made that conversation with him and not you.
I left my conscience in Afghanistan. I wouldn’t feel bad, if the jerk was an asshole in the first place, like the others say
 
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Lol lets get it straight, i dont feel bad for telling off an asshole, i feel bad for potentially stopping a newbie from asking a question or scaring people away. I'm not going to lose sleep over that guy. I couldnt have scripted his responses any better lol. One thing i did learn in high school was how pick apart someone's argument. I wasnt on the debate team but my best friend was and we honed the craft. NGL, i thought it was kinda funny too lol.
 
Got it straight sir!! You’re still awesome, even though I know now that you can be a real wanker😂😂😂
 
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